I have done a lot of self help over the years. I've known since I was a teenager, that I was not like most. I knew before I was married, that my then husband was quite different me.
After many years have passed, and me seeing therapist..(s) trying to fix myself so others would like me better; including my husband. I've realized that I am indeed operating on a higher emotional level than most. No therapist would give me any pills, nor did they deem me crazy. Honestly, I had to beg for help with my anxiety. I look well put together and carry myself in a graceful manner. AND I've been told I look strong and confident.
I've ran into a few people in my life that totally get me.. And I get them.
We all have our own personalities, code of behavior, and sometimes we say or do things others wouldn't do, therefore others feel we shouldn't do it as well! it's not something "They're" comfortable with. (We like to impose our ethics on one another) How we speak, how we live, who we date/ marry, who we vote fore... even how we work. We all have a different work ethic! This is were good workers, bad or lazy workers come in.. *as far as we're concerned* But often these workers just aren't willing to go the extra mile as you or myself. So we label them as bad and OR LAZY. I have personally worked with SO many LAZY workers.. in my opinion. But.. that's the problem! it is only my opinion. Just because they didn't work to the tune of my ethics, didn't and doesn't mean they're bad or lazy. It does however mean we're operating on a different level of work ethic. All this isn't a bad thing.. it's just a you are YOU 🍎and I am ME thing!🍅
When we meet people that insist on mocking us for being different from them
We must understand they truly know no better. Their level of intelligence doesn't compare to yours. None of this is bad! We just need to be aware of it.
If you're operating on a higher emotional level.. You have to surround yourselves around like minded minds.. Those that are most like you. It matters! emotional intelligence is very real. That's what it's called!
Some of us are unable to reach into that deep place of sincerity. But like me! you can learn.. and change! You can actually be who you truthfully want to be. And it doesn't have to be related to this blog post.. I simply want you to just BE YOU! and do not let someone else decide that for you🤔
Thank you for stopping by!💙
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